It's the thought that counts - I disagree

We've all heard the old addage 'It's the thought that counts'. And I believe we often land in a place where that just isn't true.

If I think about holding the door open for you as you run up behind me but I let it slam in front of you instead, the thought did not count.

If I think about sending you a condolence card, calling, or dropping off a hot dish when a loved one dies but I do nothing, the thought does not count.

If I think about giving you a birthday present, or taking you out to celebrate, but do nothing, the thought does not count.

If I think about taking time to pray, meditate or walk in nature but don't do it, the thought does not count.

And if I think about living my life differently, learning something new, or following a dream, but do nothing, the thought does not count.

It takes thought AND action to make a difference. We have to make the time and do the things we think about in order for them to impact our lives and the lives of others.