Listening

This morning's quote was interesting. "One of the best ways to persuade others is with your ears--by listening to them." -- Dean Rusk

What does this have to do with choices? And what does it have to do with creating an extraordinary life?

We have choices even in the little moments of our days. We choose whether to speak or listen. We choose whether to push our agenda or respect others. We choose to fight or to create harmony.

I believe that when we block others, speak over them, and reject ideas without consideration, we are creating a life with stress. Think about it. When you are in confrontation with someone, how do you feel? Now contrast that with listening respectfully, possibly disagreeing, and having a discussion. How does that feel?

I am not saying you will agree with everyone you meet. What I do believe is that when we listen to others with respect and an open mind we end up with a peace filled moment rather than a stress filled moment. And you never know, maybe we can learn something in the process:)