Who to Listen to

Have you ever shared your dream with someone only to have them laugh at you, or point out all the reasons it won't work? Dream stealers. That's what we call people who do that. They do it for many reasons, most commonly because they are trying to protect you or because when you change it will mess with their world. Don't let them mess with yours!

When you have a dream don't let other people stop you with their fears. Sometimes that means keeping the dream to yourself, at least until you are strong enough and confident enough to move forward in spite of their comments. Share your dream with people who will encourage you and help you grow - and who those people are might surprise you.

Sometimes you have to move outside of your family and close friends to find support. You may want to join a group or club, you may want to find a community - just look for something where people are focused on growing. Look for a supportive environment. That doesn't mean people who smile and say go for it all the time - that means people who will give advice, encouragement, honest opinions and support.

Remember - you get to choose who to listen to. Choose wisely.