It's been a while since I talked about this and it is definitely time. Let's start by answering a couple questions. Have you done something lately that was good? Did you follow-up on a difficult task? Have you made improvements in a behavior? Were you nice and positive in the face of adversity (otherwise known as irritating or depressing people)? Is you self talk sounding better?
If you're answering yes to any of these questions, or have made any forward progress in any area of your life, then it's time to celebrate! Yes, you can. You do deserve it and it is good for you so go for it. Do a happy dance, eat a piece of chocolate, play a game of golf, get a massage, go to a movie. Whatever it is, large or small, enjoy a moment of success. Let yourself feel good about your progress. Tell yourself you did a great job and give yourself a pat on the back. Have fun, enjoy the moment and send me your celebration stories - I love to hear about people having fun.